And you don’t need to excavate everything at once. Just put your hand on your chest today and say, “I’m in here somewhere. And I’m coming back.”

I Feel Myself (IFM): The Quiet Victory of Coming Home to You

*— j.

That’s the first breath of IFM.

At first, the answers were terrifying. “I don’t know” was the reply to almost everything. But slowly, softly, preferences emerged. A love for rainy afternoons and thick sweaters. A distaste for small talk that drains my soul. A weird, nerdy passion for the way light hits water.

For a long time, I didn’t know what that meant. I thought "feeling yourself" meant confidence—walking into a room like you own it, posting a fire selfie, getting that promotion. And sure, that’s a version of it. But the real thing? The IFM of it all? It’s much quieter.

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And you don’t need to excavate everything at once. Just put your hand on your chest today and say, “I’m in here somewhere. And I’m coming back.”

I Feel Myself (IFM): The Quiet Victory of Coming Home to You i feel myself ifm

*— j.

That’s the first breath of IFM.

At first, the answers were terrifying. “I don’t know” was the reply to almost everything. But slowly, softly, preferences emerged. A love for rainy afternoons and thick sweaters. A distaste for small talk that drains my soul. A weird, nerdy passion for the way light hits water. And you don’t need to excavate everything at once

For a long time, I didn’t know what that meant. I thought "feeling yourself" meant confidence—walking into a room like you own it, posting a fire selfie, getting that promotion. And sure, that’s a version of it. But the real thing? The IFM of it all? It’s much quieter. That’s the first breath of IFM